WHAT SETS OTHER WOMEN APART?

I was trying to decide on what to write when my mind became flooded with a list of women who , in one way or the other, have affected my perception about life and how to deal with its complexities.

First on the list is my eldest sister who’s currently battling with Cancer and undergoing series of chemotherapy in Manila. Despite her difficulties, she still maintains a cheerful disposition that is worthy of praise. She used to have long, straight, silky, black hair which had been adored by many. And though she now sports a new do as an unfortunate effect of her medical treatment, I don’t see a woman in despair. Instead, I see a woman of fortitude. One who remains steady under pressure.

Next is my mom’s best friend who hails from Lingayen. Sigrid Datumanong (nee De Guzman) is a woman of grace who despite being the wife of former DOJ and DPWH Secretary Simeon A. Datumanong, has kept her feet firmly planted on the ground. Oh! She is a sight to behold what with her light complexion and her mestiza attributes. Yet, you will never see her brag or put her weight around even when her husband held high-ranking positions. My mom used to tell me that what she particularly noticed about Auntie Sigrid is that she never talks ill of anyone. She always has something nice to tell about someone else. I guess this is something noteworthy for women who engage in gossip all the time. There is a bounty of blessing when we guard our mouths from useless talk.

Mdm. Priscilla Espino in a red gown

They say behind every man’s success is a woman. And I would say Mrs. Priscilla Espino is the wind beneath Gov. Amado T. Espino’s wings. She is an epitome of a woman with a strong resolve. What amazed me was, you can practically broach any topic under the sun and she would have a ready, witty answer to one’s queries. She is indeed a delight to be with. Despite her stature, I was surprised that she could crack a joke that can send everyone to guffaws. Yet, she remains a woman who exudes beauty, grace and elegance.

Then there is Madam Baby Arenas. Back in the late 90s, I have already observed what robust heart she has for the plight of others.  And she is such a wonderful host! Once we went to her farm in Malasique to celebrate New Year and I would say, she hasn’t change a bit. Despite belonging to the high echelons of our society, she would always make a person feel comfortable as if one is really a part of her family. Another beautiful person inside out who is worthy of emulation!

Mrs. Celia Lim

Of course, there is Mrs. Celia A. Lim, lovely wife of Dagupan City Mayor Benjie S. Lim. I have met her once during a Balikabayan Night celebration a few years ago at the City Plaza. But what I really find memorable about Manang Celia is her kindness. During a trip to China in 2005, she selflessly helped my husband find an item for me, a loving gesture which I have cherished till this day.  

There are still other women whom I must say have gained my respect and adoration but are just too numerous to make mention.

Point is, there is always a reason why some women are more victorious than the rest.

If we just pause and accentuate the strengths of those who have prevailed -- whether in the business arena, the academe, political or in any genre-- surely we will find nuggets of wisdom as to how we should live our lives so that we can attain our own triumphs as well.

A thought worthy to ponder, don’t you think?